To answer your question from the information you’ve given me… From what you told me, my read on what you’re trying to figure out is one of three scenarios: a) you want to know that he likes you because knowing someone likes you feels good, b) he is indifferent to you (in the romantic sense), but you and you’re seeing what you want to see, c) you don’t know whether or not he likes you, but you’d be open to starting something with him.I’m going to go with the assumption that you like him, mainly because if you didn’t, you wouldn’t have asked.In the following days I’m going to give you some of their stories of dating after 40 and relationships.(Guys, if you’re reading this…get in touch if you want to share!The reality is that playing emotional detective usually only succeeds at doing one thing: Making the girl go absolutely crazy.My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out…When it comes time to write a headline, try one of these first. One of the first techniques you should always explore is transforming your major benefit into a headline.At the very least, this can give you a creative jumping off point to write a headline that works. After all, your number one selling point should be up front.
I’ve talked to countless single men over the years about their experiences with women, especially those in their 40s, 50s and beyond.
but assuming that they like you in the way that you want them to…
well, that usually leads to them actually liking you!
I'm not just slightly chubby and complaining about those last 15 pounds.
I'm rather short and weigh almost precisely 300 lbs. Unless you think such things are mutually exclusive, I would describe myself as reasonably pretty, in a natural, low-maintenance, naughty librarian kind of way. I am certainly not everyone's cup of tea, and I'm not at all offended by that fact.