When a relationship has to take account of someone else's children as well, it can be a difficult decision for you to make and should not be one that is taken lightly.
But the question for you is, how are you experiencing this? Do you get along well with them or is there a lot of tension between you?
Committed couples often hit major snags in a relationship and lose each other for a period of time.
Falling in love with someone can be more complicated as we age and change relationships, bringing our past lives in tow.
Are you concerned about whether your boyfriend will want to have children with you, given he already has three of his own?
If he does want to have children with you, are you worried that it won’t mean as much to him as it does to you, as a first-time parent? Did you envision motherhood coming later in your life?